Jul 26 2008
ACCEPTING CHANGES
Why is it so hard to accept changes in our life? I have been beating myself trying to make peace with the changes that will be happening soon. The thought about it thou makes me sick and I am taking it very hard. I am afraid of the new outcome for my routine will dramaticaly change. First of all I am loosing my job which is hard to even think straight. I have been working for the same company for over fourteen years, and recently I was told I would no longer have a job come September. Because of that I will no longer be able to afford my house payment so that means moving out of town. So I really feel like my whole life will be changing in ways I never thought possible. One of my problems is that I take everything personal. Maybe I should not and change my whole thiking to things due happen for a reason and there is something else awaiting for me. I am doing my best to cope with this difficult situation but it is hard!!!!
Nice one! But I’m sure you shouldn’t beat yourself up about things. There are certain techniques like rewarding yourself for accepting changes in your life and cognitive behaviour techniques. I hope that things work out for you I really do. All the best and keep writing it helps!