Dec 26 2008
What to do when family bad mouths you?
Well it looks that we have figure who is talking bad about my family. This person I have admire and had though highly about him. In a way I saw him as my mentor but no more. My admiration has turn into hate I don’t like this feeling because I am not the hating type. So how can I deal with this feeling it is so awkward that its hard for me to describe it. I have known my brother in law for as long as I been married to my husband. At the beginning he was married and years later he went through a divorce. When that occurred I was there for him and honestly I don’t regret it. In a way it got me back into church and back to my believes. Ever since he been divorce I have helped with his daughter never have I charged him or asked for something in return. So to know that my brother in law is talking crap about his own brother really makes me angry. Why would he? I guess that makes him feel good about himself, but how sad that the is doing those things. I just hurts a lot more when you know is your own family who talks crap about you. How can you deal with such problems? It is a big issue, I mean how can you go on pretending nothing is wrong. When you know that this is happening behing your back.
