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On Monday I received a call from my niece who just had a baby a couple of weeks ago. Her complain was that I have not gone to see the baby. How do I say it nicely,” I DON’T HAVE TIME” and really is the truth. All week I spent time running to work and school then I get home and try to do homework. Forget about cooking I don’t have time and eating is the worse part. I do eat but all that I eat is junk food because again I don’t have time. My bother visits me now and then and when he comes I love that he cooks for me. Well not really he cooks for my mom who lives with me and who is really ill. Sometimes I don’t know how I manage my life. There are days when I look at my face and I just feel like a truck run over me. I just live day to day with the hopes that all these hard work at school will somehow pay off.

Well I got caught using the Internet during work hours. Is not like none uses it but we are not suppose to be using it when we are suppose to be working. I honestly don’t get on the Internet unless I have something important to search or do. And well this time I was looking through my school work. My boss did not say a word to me but I am just waiting for him to do so. I am not the only one who does this almost everyone goes online while working, but the problem is that I got caught. Oh well my bad luck!!!

As I have gotten older, time seems to go faster and faster. My friend and I have children who were born in the same year a month apart and we can believe how time has gone by so fast. We have started to make plans for birthday parties and to celebrate thier third birthday. It seems like it was just yesterday when I came home with my baby. Well not as easy as it sounds. I had major problems when my baby girl was born I almost not make it home. But after three major surgeries and a week in a comma I made it back, I guess it wasn’t my time yet and thank GOD I really enjoy being a mother. As hard as my delivery was I wish I could have another child, but I am happy to have what I have. I know there are couples who wish they could have at least one and I was bless to have two beatiful children. That is one thing I would never give up and that is the joy off being a mother.

What a horrible tragedy, I heard this morning about the parent who killed their five kids and then turn the guns on themselves. They are cowards, if you ask me. Why take the life of others who did not asked to be born but that were conceive. I am just very upset to hear that a father took the lives of five kids into his own hand. Who was he to decide? Because he was the father did not give him the right to choose. The couple should have killed themselves and had left the children. I am sure they would of find good homes. I am just overwhelmed with this news. I just cannot understand how people

Well as hard as it was I broke the news to my friend about her smelly hair. I also think I know the reason she has that problem. One of the things she told me she does every night is take a bath just before heading to sleep. My friend does not use a hair dryer so she sleeps with wet hair and her pillow has a mildew smell which I think is making her hair smell bad. When I told her I thought it would be the end of our friendship, but I was wrong my friend completely understood what I was telling her. At no time during my conversation did she seem offended. I really like to be honest with people but its hard sometimes because there are some people who are super sensible and get their feelings hurt very easily. My friend is now taking action and trying to get help for her problem and I am happy for her.

How can you tell someone you most adore that her hair smells. I am not joking my friends hair smell bad. I really like her but I don’t think the smell bothers her anymore. Honestly she has gotten use to the smell. I guess? I have been looking for information on how to cure the smell but how do I tell her. I am sure I am going to hurt her someone or another. I am not the only one that has notice the smell. I have heard comments from other people but I pretend like I do not know what they are taking about. I have found a few products that are said to cure the bad smell so I will be king in bringing he subject up with her. I just hope that at the end of our conversation she is still my friend.

I reall don’t understand my friends as much I want to. I made new friends when I started taking classes for court reporting. A few days later after the semester began we became friends and it made sense because we encourage,help, and counted on each other when we need help. But this semester things have changed a lot, one of my friends decided to take a break from court reporting while still attending regular classes towards her associates degree. Meanwhile my other friend began classes with me but decided to take a month vacation. Is it just me or does it look like they are not commited. Both friends have stated how much they want to became court reporters, but at the rate they are going I doubt it will be any time soon. Well I guess everyone has different priorities mine are to finish soon or I really hope to finish soon…

My goodness it has only been a few of weeks since we started the year and already my husbands employer has change yet another procedure. He use to get paid every other weeks well “SUPRISE” the dates have been change. This new order comes out without any prior notice. So guess what for today we have the job to go around town trying to stop automatic payments to several businesses. I can’t believe his boss doesn’t take his employees into consideration at all. Some of his coworkers have raised their voices but really can they do? Its an order from the main guy and I am sure he doesn’t see anything wrong in changing his policies. As long as the employees are getting paid nothing else matters right????

When do you draw a line on bailing out your children. Maybe the question I made sounds kind of stupid but when you have children when do you stop helping them. I mean my children depend on me just like I dependent on my parents, but then came a time that I knew it was time for me to be independent from my parents. I had to become responsible for my own life. I learned at an early age about paying off bills. For that I have to thank my father. But going back to my question I feel that as parents we should let our kids learn from their mistakes. Instead of keeping them from falling and letting them get back on their feet. I feel parents do a horrible thing by rushing in and helping because their not letting them learn anything. Well I hope I don’t fail and keep my own advice when my children grow up.

Seriously I am going crazy with so much homework,house work, and work,work that surrounds me. I guess I am just taking too many classes and trying to work full time. When I’m at school I wish I could just focus a hundred percent, but as soon as I get to work I like just chilling doing what I have done for so many years. In so many ways I wish I could be happy withwhat I have accomplish so far. But it was my decision to continue going to school and I just can give up. I have invested so much energy and time into school that I don’t see myself quiting. I just have to take it a day at a time and be confident that I can do this. Some day near the future I know all this hard work will be worth it.